Are you ready to spice up your Sims romantic escapades with new and juicy interactions, additions, and animations?
While The Sims 4 offers an array of in-game romantic interactions, these familiar exchanges (while sweet) might start to lose their luster after a while.
But don't worry; I'm here to rescue you from your Sim's endless serenading and repetitive interactions.
With the help of countless talented Modders, it's easy to infuse your gameplay with new creative, fun, and spicy interactions.
Let's explore the [Top 25] Sims 4 Mods For Love And Romance, designed to elevate your Sims' love lives with renewed passion (and drama).
25. Soulmates
Discover your Sims true love (of many) with JaneSimsten's Soulmate Mod. This new addition to your gameplay will allow your Sims to find their Soulmate by chance, whether due to a random encounter at their local cafe or with a Sim, they already have their eyes on.
Unlike the Fated Mates function for Werewolves, the Soulmate Mod ensures compatibility based on shared traits rather than mere mood compatibility.
When a Sim finds and interacts with their Soulmate, seductive energy will envelop the couple, triggering flirty buffs.
And if your Sim is fishing for confirmation that it's safe to make a move, the "Ask About Soulmate" interaction will bring clarity on whether or not their target has already found their Soulmate.
However, if your Sim interacts with someone they find less than appealing, they may receive tense or sad buffs.
The Soulmate Mod will introduce new romantic interactions to your gameplay, increasing the likelihood of finding a fated connection.
Soulmates Features:
- Adds a new gameplay mechanic to your game: Soulmates. Sims have a random chance of finding their Soulmate when meeting someone new or interacting with someone they already know.
- Includes reward store potions to make it easier to find your Sim's Soulmate or to remove an unwanted Soulmate.
- Introduces a new aspiration centered around finding your Sim's Soulmate.
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You also need XML Injector by Scumbumbo.
24. Attachment Styles
Want to make things more interesting between your Sim couples?
Ellesimsworld’s mini Attachment Styles Mod will add authenticity to your gameplay by giving your Sims access to the four main Attachment styles: Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized, and Secure.
These new realistic traits will only become available once your Sims have achieved a high enough friendship and romantic level with their love interest.
However, beware; these traits can lead to intense negative outcomes, like death, if your Sims become too angry or sad.
These new characteristics are available for young adults and elders, who can choose from one of the four attachment styles, enhancing your storytelling with customized buffs and consequences, adding depth and drama to your romantic interactions.
Attachment Styles Features:
- Includes 4 attachment styles: Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized, and Secure.
- Traits are only available for young adults to elders, with only ONE trait per Sim, located in the Emotional Category in CAS (Create-A-Sim).
- The Avoidant, Disorganized, and Anxious attachment styles include 1-2 Self-interactions when you click on your Sim.
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You also need XML Injector by Scumbumbo.
23. The Sims 4 Romantic Interaction Addition
Ignite your Sims' romantic connections from a spark to a roaring flame with the Sims 4 Romantic Interaction Addition Mod by Cepzid Creation.
This Mod brings passionate interactions like the Medieval Serenade, Electrified Kiss, Irresistible Wink, and more.
And, for those who love and miss The Sims 3 romance interactions, this Mod will make your day with familiar interactions, like Leap Into Arms, Give Flowers, Be Frisky, and other fan favorites.
These new and familiar interactions give your Sims countless ways to express their affection and desire, whether in a budding romance or a one-night stand, enhancing their romantic lives.
The Sims 4 Romantic Interaction Addition Features:
- Includes numerous interactions: Amorous Hug, Whisper In Ear, Sing a Gram, Jetpack Kiss, and more.
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You also need XML Injector by Scumbumbo.
22. Bed Cuddle
Do you find it odd that your Sims don't cuddle in bed when they're so obviously in love (or in lust)?
The Bed Cuddle Mod by thepancake1 and MizoreYukii lets your Sims sleep in their lover's arms, enhancing intimacy.
This Mod gives your Sims two ways to snuggle: a Regular Cuddling Version and a No Super Speed Version, which disables Super Speed 3, allowing time to pass naturally. However, you can only choose one version, not both.
Watch your Sims cuddle throughout the night (or day) with this affectionate little addition that brings a realistic touch to their love lives.
Important Note: This Mod may conflict with other Mods that modify beds or sleep interactions. Please read the description carefully before installing.
Bed Cuddle Features:
- Reintroduces cuddling in bed for Sims with a romantic relationship.
- Available in a Regular Version and a No-super-speed version.
- May conflict with Mods that modify Beds and Sleep Interactions;
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21. Passionate Gifts
Deepen your Sims relationships with this Passionate Gifts Mod by UTOPYA_cc, which brings life to the in-game "Give a Romantic Gift" interaction.
This Mod introduces new ways for your Sims to express their love and affection, or they can use these gifts as a clever (or desperate) get-out-of-jail-free card to escape messy situations.
By using the new "Passionate Gifts" menu in the Pie Menu, your Sim can choose from a selection of presents like a Silver Bracelet, Flowers and Chocolates, a Heart Necklace, and a Fancy Wrist Watch.
Each gift comes with unique animations and realistic sounds, adding a sweet touch of realism to your gameplay.
Passionate Gifts Features:
- An enhanced version of the "Give a Romantic Gift." interaction allows Sims to give more romantic, meaningful, and expressive gifts.
- Includes highly detailed animations with their own custom sounds.
- Each interaction has its own buffs for both the gifter and the receiver.
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You also need XML Injector by Scumbumbo.
20. Hickies
Hickies are a natural result of a time well spent with a lover, so why not let your Sims experience this affectionate badge of honor (or shame) with the Hickie Mod by llazyneiph? This intense little addition allows your Sims to display their love bites with pride or make it their 24-hour mission to hide the evidence from those who would disapprove of their love bites (like their parents).
Hickies Features:
- A small Mod that allows your Sims to give Hickies to their lovers.
- Hickies will automatically appear on a Sim's neck and fade after about 24 hours.
- Parents can discipline teens if they catch them giving Hickies.
- Find this New Interaction under the Physical Intimacy menu in the Romance Pie Menu.
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You also need XML Injector by Scumbumbo.
19. Lie On Lap Interaction
Your Sims deserve more meaningful ways to connect with their partners through a simple gesture that will make a big impact.
The "Lie On Lap" interaction by Mercuryfoam offers just that by allowing Sims to rest comfortably on their lover's lap, sharing sweet moments as their partner strokes their hair, massages their head, or caresses their face.
These randomized, affectionate little moments will deepen the bond between your Sims and give you picture-worthy snapshots.
Lie On Lap Interaction Features:
- Base Game Compatible.
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18. Cuddle And Bath Together
Spice up your Sims' love lives with the Cuddle and Bath Together Mod by Khlas. This sensual Mod allows your Sims to enjoy intimate moments with their lover while relaxing in the bathtub, complete with all-new custom animations that will add a provocative layer of realism and passion to your Sims' romantic lives.
Cuddle And Bath Together Features:
- Features new animations, buffs, and icons made from scratch.
- Includes 4 different animation loops that play randomly, with occasional repeats (though this is rare).
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17. "Couples" Events
Looking to add more romantic events to your game?
With the "Couples" Events Mod selection by Kiara Sims 4 Mods, your Sims can host parties or enjoy outings with their love interest. This collection offers a variety of special events, including Anniversary Parties, Dates (or Double Dates), and Speed Dating Events, among other exciting options.
These Mods provide plenty of romantic activities that will enhance your Sims' love lives, ensuring they have plenty to do and even more reasons to go out.
"Couples" Events Features:
- Includes downloadable events designed for couples.
- Featured events include an Anniversary Event, an Engagement Party Event, a Honeymoon Event, and more.
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16. Love Triangle Mod
Is your Sim tangled in a love triangle, torn between two lovers, and can't bear the thought of continuing to lie and sneak around anymore?
Or maybe you want to add a bit of drama to your gameplay.
With the Love Triangle Mod by Maplebell, you can stir the pot and create drama between your Sims by having them confess their divided hearts, revealing their feelings for another Sim to one of their romantic lovers.
This Mod features custom animations, intense interactions, and emotional buffs, adding depth and realism to your storytelling and making your Sims' love lives more captivating and relatable.
Love Triangle Mod Features:
- To form a Love Triangle, your Sim must have a Romance Track with two Sims and a minimum Romance Score of 30.
- Includes numerous available interactions, like Demanding an Explanation, giving an Ultimatum, and more.
- Your Sim can also seek advice from someone they are close to about their predicament.
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You also need XML Injector by Scumbumbo and Lumpinou's Mood Pack for this Mod to work correctly.
15. Cute Romance
Enhance your Sims' romantic adventures with the Cute Romance Mod by thepancake1 and MizoreYukii.
This Mod revives classic interactions and introduces exciting new interactions and animations.
Your Sims can now perform Slow Dancing, a Dip Kiss, an Intense Kiss, a Bed Makeout, Cuddling from Behind, and even a Table Proposal.
With these heartwarming additions, you can enhance your in-game romance experience and add more depth to your Sims love lives.
Cute Romance Features:
- Base Game Compatible.
- Includes Custom Animations like Slow Dancing, a Dip Kiss, an Intense Kiss, a Bed Makeout, Cuddling from Behind, and Table Proposal interactions.
Get the Mod Here
You also need XML Injector by Scumbumbo.
14. Custom Nuptials
Are you ready to take your Sims' relationships to the next level beyond just being a girlfriend, boyfriend, or significant other but in a completely new and revamped way?
Enter Custom Nuptials by ADeepIndigo.
This Mod unlocks realistic scenarios as your Sims step into marriage, partnerships, or civil unions by including or enhancing your My Wedding Stories experience.
Now your Sims can check off "to-dos" such as inviting guests, booking a complimentary consultation with an event coordinator, browsing wedding planning forums, selecting the perfect wedding cake, and much, much, much more.
And, as a realistic bonus, your Sims can deepen their bond during their honeymoon—or skip it all and rebelliously elope.
Custom Nuptials Features:
- Base Game Compatible.
- Sims can only propose if they are in a relationship and must first purchase an engagement/commitment ring.
- Two new relationship statuses were added for Sims, who may not want to become engaged or get married
- New Interactions can be found on the Phone or Computer or by clicking the required Sim.
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13. Love Language Mod
Bring authenticity to your Sims’ emotions with the Love Language Mod by Sasha's Space.
This in-depth Mod lets your Sims choose from the five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Gift Giving, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch that you can assign as traits to your Sims, adding a layer of realism to how they express their love and affection.
With this Mod, your Sims can enhance their personalities and express their love using assigned love languages, creating deeper connections and more meaningful interactions.
However, all Sims packs are required to use this Mod.
Love Language Mod Features:
- Sims can choose a love language as a trait, purchasable from the rewards store for 12 points.
- Once a Sim has the trait, you'll see it in the Simology panel, and your Sims will develop wants related to their chosen love language(s).
- Created using all Sims 4 Packs.
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You also need XML Injector by Scumbumbo.
12. Road to Romance
No one is born a master of romance; we all stumble and patch things up the best we can, only to occasionally face more roadblocks—especially if we’re new to love and relationships.
So, why should your Sims be any different?
With the Road to Romance Mod by Lumpinou, you'll unlock realistic romance enhancements or explore a new Romance Skill system (depending on which version you download) that your Sims must develop to access a wider range of Romance Social options.
Initially, your Sims will have an "80% chance of WooHoo resulting in an Uncomfortable or Embarrassed moodlet," but by reaching the Fifth Threshold, their magnetism will be unstoppable as they woo their lover with a "Magic Pick-Up Line" and charm everyone in the room.
Your Sims can engage in other Custom Interactions, such as revealing relationship problems to friends or working through relationship issues by going to therapy.
Additionally, they can explore Rabbit Hole events like going on dates, attending helpful counseling sessions with their partner, and trying their hand at online dating.
This Mod transforms limited romance options into an exciting journey as you transform your Sims' Romance technique from awkward to irresistible.
Road to Romance Features:
- Base Game Compatible.
- Introduces the Romance Skill with New Interactions and moodlets.
- Sims can go on Rabbit Hole dates with their partners.
- Supports a simple dating app function because the "Meet&Mingle Dating App" exists that the developer recommends.
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11. Shimrod's Pillow Talk after Woohoo
Ever wish your Sims would savor the moment after WooHoo instead of leaping out of bed if they're not ready to fall asleep?
Shimrod's Pillow Talk after WooHoo Mod allows your Sims to spend some quality time after a passionate play session, adding a touch of realism and relatability to intimate moments—because who really wants to race off right after if it's not a smash-and-dash situation?
Shimrod's Pillow Talk after Woohoo Features:
- Includes 5 animations that were intended for the game from the beginning but were never added.
- Concludes Woohoo, with a “Big Finish” animation: the bedsheets bouncing higher into the air, some extra noise, and fireworks.
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10. The One With All The Romance
Elevate your Sims' romance with The One With All The Romance Mod by Katie_Mods, offering a variety of new social interactions to deepen (or ruin) your Sims romantic relationships.
This Romance Social Pack introduces countless options to enhance your Sims' romantic lives.
For example, your Sim can express their appreciation for a loved one, tell their lover they still feel butterflies around them, or engage in open discussions about relationship dynamics for Sims with relationship troubles.
But what if your Sims just can't get along? Argue about it, with new and realistic arguing topics and interactions that can impact (and possibly end) their relationship.
And this is just the tip of the iceberg of what is available.
For storytellers, this Mod offers two Romance Tropes that will bring their narratives to life, like the "Enemies to Lovers" dynamic, which uses the appearance of a seemingly intense conflict to hide flirtation. Alternatively, the "Friends to Lovers" trope allows friends to exchange playful, flirty interactions as they lean into the newfound spark between them.
The One With All The Romance Features:
- Discuss relationship milestones such as moving in together, saying "I love you" for the first time, having children, meeting the parents, etc.
- Interaction availability depends on your Sims’ relationships. For example, Milestones are available if your Sims are significant others/girlfriend/boyfriend.
- Note: This Mod requires additional downloads. Check the "Relations" tab for the links to the additional downloads needed for this Mod to run correctly. Otherwise, the Mod will not function correctly.
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9. Improved Social Compatibility
The Improved Social Compatibility by Down-in-Simsland enriches your gameplay by improving social interactions based on traits, lifestyles, and overall personalities, which will determine how your Sims connect with others.
This Mod will enhance your experience by expanding the Love Struck Pack with a better, more fine-tuned attraction system.
And if you download the Improved Turn-On & Turn-Offs element, you can eliminate that useless outfit colors section and replace it with realistic categories like body types, makeup, tattoos & piercings preferences, and other useful physical appearance choices that actually matter.
Improved Social Compatibility Features:
- Enhances game balance by incorporating additional traits and lifestyles, giving relative importance to certain traits while amplifying the negative effects of others.
- The Improved Turn-On & Turn-Offs was created to replace Outfit Colors with Physical Features for Turn-Ons and Turn-Offs.
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8. Cupid's Corner Tweaks
Do you wish your Sims had more matches on their Cupid's Corner app, allowing for endless refreshing and new connections (especially if you're dealing with a picky Sim)?
Well, your wish to Cupid has been granted.
Cupid's Corner by Zerbu now offers more generations with unlimited refreshing, pleasing even your pickiest Sim. This Mod offers more chances to find a lover with up to 20 Sims a day—more than enough for even the most adventurous romantics.
To use this Mod, ensure you enable Script Mods in your settings to enjoy expanded possibilities.
Cupid's Corner Tweaks Features:
- Refresh matches as much as you want without cooldowns!
- Contact up to 20 Sims per day.
- Each refresh shows 15 randomly generated Sims and 5 existing Sims. Note that the number of Sims downloaded from the gallery is controlled by EA and can't be changed with Mods.
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7. Passionate Romance
Stimulate your Sims' emotions with more love and desire through the Passionate Romance Mod by Sacrificial.
This Mod infuses your Sims relationships (or situationships) with a touch of spice and a dash of sweetness as your Sims are swept away and drawn into their lover's arms.
Explore new animations and interactions that will enhance your gameplay, such as Snuggling with a loved one, sneaking away to savor a passionate Makeout session, snapping cute Romantic Selfies (and Wedding Photos), and more.
These intimate interactions offer exciting new lip-locking ways for your Sims to express their desire.
Passionate Romance Features:
- Take Engagement Proposal photos with 5 different poses.
- Capture Wedding Ceremonial photos with 11 different poses.
- Take Romantic Selfies in cars or a Hot Air Balloon with 12 different new poses and so many different angles, making for 60+ unique photo opportunities.
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6. Carry and Kiss New Animation Interaction
The seductive and intense Carry and Kiss Animation by Khlas brings a new, sexy, romantic interaction for your Sims to enjoy.
This feature allows your Sims to sweep their partner off their feet—literally—by either picking them up or being the one wrapped around them.
Keep the romance alive and electrifying with this Mod when your Sims feel especially frisky.
Carry and Kiss New Animation Interaction Features:
- Requires 2 Sims in a Romantic Relationship with at least 50% Romance or more.
- Sims must have already shared their first kiss for the option to appear.
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You also need XML Injector by Scumbumbo.
5. Open Love Life
Embrace love without boundaries with the Open Love Life Mod by Lumpinou.
This Mod allows your Sims to explore their romantic desires by choosing from a couple of relationship types: Open Relationships, the Polyamorous lifestyle, Throuples (a relationship with three exclusive partners), or Classic Exclusive Relationships.
Your Sims will now have a Personal Preference for either Exclusive or Non-exclusive relationships (enjoying guilt-free freedom from dealing with jealous partners).
Give your Sims the flexibility to express their unique romantic needs by allowing them to choose their preferred love styles.
Open Love Life Features:
- Sims have preferences regarding relationships and exclusivity.
- All Sims-aged Teens and older in the world will automatically be given a preference.
- Sims can form 3-Sim Couples: exclusive within the Triad, jealous-free, unless someone "wanders" outside of the Triad.
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You also need the "Lumpinou's Toolbox" Library Mod by the same creator found at the bottom of the post.
4. No Strings Attached
Does your Sim crave Physical Intimacy without the strings of commitment? Then the No Strings Attached Mod by Lumpinou is the Mod you need.
This Mod lets your Sims enjoy the benefits of Intimacy with a friend without any romantic entanglements.
Now, they can fulfill their physical desires while maintaining emotional and physical independence, free from the shackles of a conventional relationship.
No Strings Attached Features:
- Introduces a new relationship type, Friends with Benefits.
- Enables romanceless romance relationships.
- Sims in a Friends with Benefits arrangement will have their romance stay at 0 and will not be jealous of each other.
Get the Mod Here
You also need the "Lumpinou's Toolbox" Library Mod by the same creator found at the bottom of the post.
3. FruitySim Phone Dating App Public Edition
Looking for a realistic Dating App for your Sims, complete with a variety of “fruity” options? Then, let the FruitySim Phone Dating App Mod by Grumpy be your perfect match.
Your Sims can explore a spectrum of "fruity" choices: Banana for those seeking passion without restrictions, Cherry for Casual Dating to see where it leads, Orange for Sims interested in finding their one True Love, and Peach for purely Platonic Connections to make new friends.
Using the App, Sims can browse profiles to discover the fruity preferences of Potential delicious matches, offering insight into their desires.
If your Sim finds a profile appealing, they'll need to curb their anxiety and patiently wait for a response to see if there's a match. Depending on the Sims' Sexual Orientation, they may find their Perfect Match or get “Raked” and have to continue exploring other profiles.
FruitySim Phone Dating App Public Edition Features:
- Base Game Compatible.
- Relationship types are represented by a Fruit: a Banana for Spicy relationships and One-night stands; a Cherry for slowly getting to know a Sim to see where the relationship leads; a Peach for Purely platonic relationships; and an Orange for a Sim looking for a Serious Relationship.
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You also need XML Injector by Scumbumbo.
2. Romance Lock
Worried that your committed Sims might form unexpected romantic connections due to their flirtatious nature? The Romance Lock Mod by Zero's Sims 4 Mods is here to put your mind at ease.
This Mod gives you the power to lock romantic relationships in place, ensuring your Sims don't casually enter or advance relationships with others, keeping their loyalty intact.
Romance Lock Features:
- Prevents romance progression until the player initiates interaction.
- Sims can flirt but won't develop a romantic relationship automatically.
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You also need the Core Library by Lot 51.
1. Regency Romance
Step into the romantically complex world of the Regency Romance Mod by JaneSimsten, inspired by the formal elegance of the Regency era and the Bridgerton series.
With this Mod, your Sims can explore historical themes through unique scenarios, interactions, and worthwhile additions like developing their new Etiquette Skill, hosting gossip-worthy balls, navigating scandals, and acquiring or inheriting grand estates, and more.
Your Sims can also choose from three new Careers and two new Aspirations.
But watch out, or your Sims may find their names in Lady Whistledown's scandalous gossip papers.
Regency Romance Features:
- Simulates Regency-era social dynamics and introduces new historical gameplay options.
- Introduces “Rakes,” lovable scoundrels who can perform a "Rakish Introduction" to acquire steamy new acquaintances.
- If only one Sim witnesses a scandal, you can ask for them to keep your secret. The outcome will depend on the relationship with that Sim, so tread carefully!
- Lady Whistledown delivers juicy gossip papers three times weekly, commenting on the happenings of your Sims.
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You also need XML Injector by Scumbumbo.
